What do you do when you are the oldest and all your life you thought you would have the title of princess/prince/favorite/best… but your younger sister/brother gets that title ?
Also when you’ve worked so hard, trying to get somewhere in your life, going to school, working to pay for it, helping in the house… And you STILL don’t get any credit for it ?
Besides, your younger sister/brother has been caught doing bad to worst things…
You feel jealous, your heart filled with envy, hatred, rage, and more hatred.
This is your family, they are in your blood. (even if you believe you must be adopted ’cause you can’t relate to any of them)
No matter the counts of her/his wrongs, they cannot be compared – Everyone goes through differences in life, learn different lessons, see things differently from what you see.
If your parents chose to spoil her/him rotten and not you, and she/he gets everything and NOT you, do not worry. You already have so much, be thankful for what you have… At the end you don’t need EVERYTHING.
Stop, and just think…You are better than a jealous person, resentful and envious. All these negative things, all these shadows you will keep adding behind you, will only make you hate more, and you will end up only hurting yourself.
But you are a beautiful person and EVEN if you feel like you are nothing, start with saying: I am who I am, I am special(if you don’t think you are, you are still special) Pray to God and He will help you be a better person. Start with every new day by doing things with good, helping your family and friends, change your nasty attitude little by little, doing things that bring a smile to everyone else and yourself and then in everything you do, everyday, you will see the changes, you will grow stronger and instead of everyone looking at you how you would represent yourself from before (a nothing) people will start looking up to you and you will be respected. That is a title, so don’t underestimate yourself, you can change , and love your family no matter what! God bless ~
P.S: Do you really thing that the sibling in your family that gets spoiled, learns more than you have in your life ? No, ’cause they can just ask for anything and get it, but you…you learned how to et it on your own, that is couragious, that is strenght, and that is a reward that God gives. Knowledge, so be happy to have that.